[The Young Doctor]EP47 | Medical Drama | Ren Zhong/Zhang Li/Zhang Duo/Wang Yang/Zhang Jianing| YOUKU
Hey grandma don’t be afraid because i’m right here beside you okay oh young it’s pulmonary infection dr oya here’s the x-ray look at this granny granny it’s me oyang can you hear me right now don’t be scared okay we’re all here for you as well as chung jun
Just relax we’ll do everything to help you recover okay in this kind of situation your grandpa shouldn’t be here grandpa you can see that grandma is pretty stable right now how about you go home for the meantime hey dad this hospital room is different let’s go home now
I’ll take you for lunch first then i’ll take you home afterwards i’m not going anywhere i want to stay here with your mother wherever she is that’s where my home is how about this just take your grandpa to the doctor’s quarter and i’ll call the oncology department
Now to check if they can provide us an extra bed grandpa what do you think dad please listen to miss lynn this is it grandpa so this is a doctor’s quarters anyway you can rest here for a while i’ll just go and check on the status of the extra bed okay hey jenjen
Yeah can i ask you something does this hospital have better patient rooms such as single rooms yes we do but that kind of single room is expensive grandpa and the fees ah i’m sure that we can afford it alright just do as i say book one of those for her
However you cannot let your grandma know that we paid a lot of money for the room she’s been frugal all her life if she finds out for sure she’ll never agree grandpa why don’t we just forget that let’s just make the best of what we have as you can see she’s very uncomfortable
Right let’s make it easy for her i know but grandpa you’ve saved this money for so long you worked hard for it i think you should keep it to yourself let me just talk to director xiao and can you just please do what i tell you i know that you’re really tired now
Please don’t make this hard for yourself and don’t even bother your superiors i know your grandma doesn’t have much time well as for the money it’s of no use to me i’ve been through a lot in my life and i’ve learned so much when i was young
Back when i was still part of the army there were bullets everywhere and i’ve seen way too much death for one lifetime anyway you don’t need to worry about me alright do you understand i’ve already made up my mind we will take good care of her and will give her a simple funeral
I think instead of spending all of the money to buy her an expensive grave or earn after she passes away why don’t we use that money to give her everything she needs while she’s still alive she deserves nothing but the good things in this world and i just want to comfort
Her until the end so what do you think huh oh grandson don’t cry you cannot cry here now go go and take care of your grandma okay go come on don’t cry go quick go do as i say Honey honey honey honey what can you say about your new room anyway you can just relax here all right i’ll sleep right next to you and i’ll be here every day do you like that i understand it now her condition doesn’t look good yeah it’s not looking good
It’s already in the advanced age can you think of anything else that we can do treatment isn’t the best solution it’ll just increase the degree of her suffering dad you wouldn’t think that we neglected grandma would you do you think we made some mistake with her treatment oh hey that’s enough
What’s in the past is in the past there is no point in dwelling on it what really matters now is that we have to think of a way for her to leave more peacefully and with much less pain you are right grandpa what are you doing out here dad
What do you think about it your decision here matters the most my son i agree with you what matters right now is not her treatment what’s more important for me is that your mom will leave peacefully dad you’re so clear-headed at this time lots of family members are already panicking
It’s just letting you take care of this whole thing by yourself makes me feel guilty now as your son how can you say something like that please don’t say that again do you understand then dad does mom know does she know what’s going on here she does she knows it better than anyone
So she understands that yes she does these past few days at home she took out a bunch of old photos of our family she went through all of our things looked at the man started organizing everything did she ever tell you if there was something that she ever regretted not
Doing in her life or if there was something that she wanted to resolve these past few days she’s been mostly worried that you wouldn’t come back here but now that you’re finally back she’s more worried now about jun’s marriage i just told her that there’s nothing to worry about her grandson
Other than that dad i already talked to the hospital now that i’m back for good don’t worry about it my son after you left us to help in africa you know your mom and i never blamed you for it we were happy for you we were really proud of you and that
Being said you shouldn’t think that you owe your mom and i anything in return all right anyway let’s not talk about that and jinjin yes now as for you you took over for your dad over the past years he’s been gone you’ve always been by our side the whole time
Supporting a family at a very young age it may have looked like we were taking care of you but you should remember how much comfort you’ve given your grandparents i’ve heard others say how well you’re doing at the hospital don’t you know how important that is for grandparents and parents alike
Developing your personal and professional skills is better than inheriting wealth well you two are successful that’s why your grandma and i are so happy for you we’re very proud of you so junjun yeah your grandma’s concern about your marriage is just your concern alone i’m not
Really worried a man like you will soon find someone and that’s why you shouldn’t feel pressured about it okay okay it wasn’t easy at all and you’ve been through a lot but always keep this in mind don’t forget that in my eyes you both are still young you still lose
Control when faced with trouble my advice is that never lose control about anything so from this day forward no matter how hard it is you have to do what your grandma wants let her go as peacefully as possible for years we lived together but now we don’t have much time left
Once both grandma and i are gone from this world we want you to bury us together do you understand just get a simple ceramic urn and put both our ashes together we don’t need a grave neither a tombstone just find someplace by the water and bury us there
Because running water is just like memories that’s why when there’s water there are always memories oh come on grandpa why would you bring that up aren’t you only talking about grandma here oh silly child grandma and grandpa are already the same person besides there’s a good chance right
There you go i just said it anyway forget about it also i don’t want a shouting crying or worrying about this matter there are things that one should think clearly see clearly and say clearly rather than dwelling on it understood we got it grandma grandma chang isn’t doing so well cheng
Jun’s having a hard time lately changing had so much to deal with things at the hospital and also at his home we should try and help him whenever we can what we can really do now is to comfort him more longbow and i will work harder so that
He can spend more time with his grandma by the way i told my mom about our plans our family wants to help us out and we’ll pay the down payment using our money and my mom agrees with it did you tell your parents i’ve been busy lately i haven’t told them oh Here let me do it once i’m already gone please donate my body to the hospital what grandma why would you want to do that huh it’s not right besides i don’t agree mom why would you think of such a thing i’m sorry we can’t do that all of you are doctors right
Then why are you so conservative grandma we’re not being conservative okay besides we just can’t do that i don’t agree and dad won’t agree either right my organs are not in good condition except my corneas aside from that students can use them for their dissection in that way they can get more practice
And they’ll learn a lot so they can save more lives in the future honey how can you think of such things we cannot let you do that all right but i’ve made up my mind there’s nothing you can do to change my decision what i want to know from you is
When can you make up your minds but but grandma just what do you mean by that once i’m gone there’s going to be just three men left in our home and not even a single woman tell me how can i rest peacefully with that Hey you always do your own thing just stop following me around there’s no point in it these days i’m really super busy i have no time to write dr chung’s grime is critical so i have to work extra hard grandma chung is critical yeah well then
Would i be able to visit her go for it i think that having a girlfriend right now just seems hopeless for me dad it’s all up to you after your mother passed away i decided to spend my life all by myself but your grandma situation brought me and lindsay together again
I looked inside my heart and even if i never betrayed linsa after we got separated she never got married and i felt guilty about it oh oh but dad tell me is there is there still a place in your in your heart for for head nurse lin
Yes and now that i’m back here for good i want to take some time for our relationship and see if we can start over again that i i support you dr chung hey what what are you doing here did you come here to see a patient or for zhao chong
I heard that your grandmother was sick so i decided to come here and visit you come on you didn’t have to do that uh judgement who is she oh dad this is mustang tang a publishing house editor meet my dad oh hello mr hello there i’m chung mingy miss tang isn’t it yes
Are you here to interview dr jun oh of course not i just came here to see his grandmother oh well miss tang if that’s the case then then let’s go in please come in grandma i brought a friend here she really wants to see you
Who is it hello grandma my name is tong tong i’m a friend of dr chung ah finally it’s a girl come here oh sure sit yes get the lady something to try sure no problem thank you you are tong tong jin jun yeah you have such a lovely girlfriend
And you didn’t even tell me this well what is there to tell you about you’re silly he’s heartless don’t mind him all right let’s check out thank you thank you let’s have a little chat alright sure so tell me about you and jinjin how did you two meet each other
Um actually dr chung has an intern who signed up a contract under a publishing house and i’m his editor so i come to the hospital often eventually we just got to know each other here so you’re a publishing editor yes i didn’t expect this you’re very talented that’s great you flatter me grandma
So now you and junjin have been together for quite some time now hey wait a second no grandma the further this conversation goes the weirder starting to sound how does it sound weird are you still not together yet do you get along well with this young man oh
We’re getting along well um it’s been a while already more than a month now not too long you know he’s got some problems just in case you haven’t noticed it actually this young man his problem with women is that he’s very slow he’s just like his father that’s why you have to say
Everything directly to him do you understand oh yes i do grandma i’m a very straightforward person i’m always direct about everything that’s good then i really like that kind of person ginger yeah she’s a really nice catch well you better treat her properly what oh sure sure i’ll do
It you got it all right all right all right june how could you be like that didn’t you see how happy your grandma was just go along even if it’s not true but i didn’t say anything yeah sorry about that no problem grandmother’s greatest wish
Is that he finds a girlfriend as soon as possible dad and it looks like she likes you a lot are you two already together dad that’s enough it’s already embarrassing we’ll talk about it okay okay okay goodbye ben bye it’s a pleasure well they are i’m sorry it’s okay
And do i look like a stranger to you hey actually we don’t even know each other that way we’ve met lots of times sure i guess you’re pretty nice then you just said you and i were together and my grandma will definitely think that that you’re my girlfriend and if we ever
Slip up with this then at least your grandma was happy am i right right then i guess i should thank you there you go again don’t forget that we’re together now actually i was thinking it will pursue this relationship it might just work out huh let me walk you out dr chun yes
I really like you i know this isn’t the best time to say this you’ve got a lot going on with your family and you don’t have time to think but this is the way i am and i’m just saying what’s on my mind i really hope you can consider me
Honestly i’m not as great as you think i am and we really haven’t known each other for all that long sure we’ve talked before but not about anything deep so that means i really don’t know you yet you can take your time to get to know me I have so many things to think of right now and i don’t have time for a relationship just do your thing i’ll wait for you just look at it this way alright i think we’re not a match just give me a chance first and give yourself a chance too
Okay right now i see how much a stubborn person you are that’s right i’m stubborn if i like you then i like you i do things based on how i really feel if i feel something that it won’t go alright alright alright have it your way but let’s be clear with our situation We’ll start this relationship by just being friends sounds good Then let’s leave it at that we have a deal now so i’ll see you later you can get back to work hey wait miss time said she wanted to go see grandma chang i said go ahead i didn’t think about it but when she came back she had suddenly become dr chung’s
Girlfriend but if grandma chung finds out that dr chung was lying wouldn’t she become sad yes that’s also lying right but miss tang really does like dr chang but dr chung doesn’t like her at all in the end it’s still lying but if they explained the situation to grandma chung she’d still be
Disappointed hey dr oyang what do you think we should do about this i think that’s a good question actually i don’t know what to do i’m just like you guys these past few years i’ve wondered what do these patients think and what do they really need when they’re approaching their deaths
Is it for us to save their lives or is it to have their family members by their side to comfort them but chang jun did what he did because he had no choice he just hopes that when his grandmother leaves she’ll be at ease whenever we face a patient who’s about
To die i really feel sad for them i just want to tell them that in their last moments here on earth they should stay happy me too oftentimes i see families using all kinds of medicines and machines in order to save their loved ones but those will just make it harder for
The patient so i have no idea if doing that is the right thing or not dr oh young could it be that death is the only release for this kind of patient well in my honest opinion near-death patients need their loved ones more than hospital machines
Before i had this patient who was 22 years old he was sent here after a car accident for more than three hours the hospital wouldn’t let anyone come in and visit him in the icu only one family member can visit for just five minutes only after two hours
In the end we weren’t able to save him and he died the family members were really upset because they thought in his last moments the patient wasn’t able to see them or talk to them before he died that’s why for all those near-death patients what doctors like us should
Really do is to help them instead of trying to save them but then dr oyoung how is that we’re able to lessen the patient’s suffering is it still necessary for emergency treatment of course that’s very important we’ll save them if we can nobody’s willing to just stand by and watch their
Loved one pass away but as for those patients who already have those terminal illnesses or for those who can’t be safe through treatment using those hospital machines to extend their lives will only cause their suffering even more aside from what i mentioned near-death patients are often very dehydrated
Their circulation is poor they can’t swallow food properly that’s why their bodies feel cold and they’re more damp compared to other people we often think that they just feel cold so we give them a blanket to keep them warm however even if we only put a light blanket on their hands and feet
They’ll just find it very heavy they can’t stand it give the patient a lighter blanket respiratory failure causes them to have trouble breathing so giving oxygen might be our choice but these patients have already lost the ability to utilize oxygen so the best thing to do is turn on a fan
Or simply open a window in order for the room to be well ventilated then you can give the patient morphine or some other opiate or synthetic narcotic These patients won’t be able to eat or drink if they have a hard time swallowing so lots of families will use a tube to give them food and water but the truth is near-death patients won’t feel hunger on the contrary continuous dehydration and malnutrition will eventually cause their ketone bodies to accumulate which
Results into a natural painkiller that will make them feel numb however if we give them even a little bit of glucose during this time the painkilling effect will be lost feeding the patient will cause them to vomit or the food might eventually cause them to get choked and if the
Patient struggles and doesn’t cooperate then there will be no way that they can die quietly although infusion somehow relieves dehydration it has negative side effects like swelling and more pain the patient is having a hard time eating head nurse lynch should we intubate her now no we know 56 of patients are conscious
A week before death while the rest are drowsy but never in a single case as it happened that they were comatosed or completely unable to communicate with others that’s why family members should take this opportunity to talk to their sick loved ones and not wait until it’s too late
But these are just some of my personal views as for what we should do i can’t tell you exactly what it is the only thing you can do is slowly understand what i mean during your internship did chiang mini go and talk to you already not yet
That’s fine once he figures it out he will finally come to you and once you finally get better if he doesn’t come to me then i’ll go to him i don’t think i’ll get any better but what you’re seeing now makes me happy anyway once i’m gone if he still doesn’t come
To you just go to him just do what i told you auntie please don’t talk that way you’re all done yeah gotta get going you know you also have to rest okay if you go on like this you might collapse you should talk well i’m fine i’m tougher than you
Hello dr chung your grandma’s condition has gotten worse What dad grandpa Oh director director I’m afraid she won’t make it any further all of her organs have begun to fail you should discuss what to do afterwards i’m going to check on her what should we do should we donate her body what do you think of that huh i can accept it as a doctor
But i cannot accept it as a son right that’s also how i feel about it so how about we discuss this again with grandma that’s pointless your grandma would just insist on that request until the end and grandpa what’s his stand about this he agrees with it Dad i’m not trying to persuade you you’re aware that when someone’s dying they don’t feel anything it’s like her soul is already just don’t say it let me think about it first It’s acceptable for someone whose life is about to end but it’s really hard to accept for their loved ones i’ve always been a doctor all my life and i’ve saved countless lives before but i can’t even save the life of my own mother but even if i can’t save my own mother’s
Life i can’t just stand there and watch as my own mother’s bodies donated it hurts me a lot i really can’t take it increase the oxygen did you hear that What happened ginger what what are you doing you cannot do that do as i say dad do as i say do as i say okay right now there’s no point in giving her oxygen everyone step back please step back all right get out of the way give her some room hold on
What just a back okay give grandma some room let her see a bit better okay auntie’s awake now grandma grandma mom grandma’s junjun grandma how are you feeling now huh we have an agreement donate my body don’t forget all right and you take care of links Honey when you get there please don’t panic just wait for me i’ll be there soon Director intubate dad Grandma grandma grandma please don’t leave us grandma grandma quick we have to save her now someone get a defibrillator i have to save my grandmother go quick come on hurry that won’t help anyone children nothing has happened to my grandma you really need to understand the situation
How can your grandma leave in peace if she’s seeing you like this do you think your grandma will be happy with this Grandma please don’t leave grandma us don’t leave us Let’s please Let us show our respects to the donor first bow Second bow third bow All right Dinner’s ready there’s lynn you should take a rest but let’s have dinner first dad grandpa dinner’s ready okay dad let’s eat Honey let’s eat now Go on anyway please don’t worry about me you can go back to work or just do what you have to do i will be all right i can handle myself hey dad let’s eat now sure dad hey don’t be so sad now you need to learn self-control
She’s your grandma and my mom how can i move on if you can’t i know don’t worry dad there’s something i wanted to discuss with you sure from now on can you call head nurse lynn as your auntie instead huh after your mom left us i really felt down-hearted for a while
So to raise my spirits i went to africa it seemed silly to me now i was only escaping you know i get your point there’s nothing wrong if you want to escape but now i regret that decision i should have spent more time with your grandma
When i first heard that she was sick i thought about coming back early but things right over there we get it we get it okay i never imagined that she would be gone so quickly i’ve done a terrible job in being her own son me too i’ve done a terrible job as a
Grandson your grandma was right we should start over again well medicine is indeed a practical profession as you know we’re busy every day dealing with all our patients right we don’t really need to write those papers or become a director someday we can just keep on caring for our
Patients we will save the ones that we can save and comfort the ones that we cannot save anymore right right hey wait a second i think we’ve gotten off topic here weren’t we just talking about about me calling head nurse lynn aunty instead what’s that supposed to mean i’m sure
You know what that means so stop playing dumb so then what do you think you should have known it already i already said that i’d support you besides that’s what grandma wanted as well right Oh head nurse i mean uh auntie lynn you heard everything we said right i’ll just say it june has finally agreed thank you wait wait why are you thanking me i should be thanking you instead from now on you have to take care of this muddled-headed old man
But there’s still something that i still don’t understand why did you have to wait for him for so many years is my dad really that amazing actually i never intended to wait for him after he and your mom got married i switched jobs so that i could forget him
All throughout these years i also really wanted to get married but unfortunately it never seemed to work for me eventually i realized when someone’s in your heart it’s really hard to replace him with someone else but it looks like the fates are with us and we still ended up together again
After all well then congratulations to the both of you hey hold on how about we just tell grandpa about this news he’s not feeling well now and i think this might cheer him up no tomorrow i still have to take her your auntie lynn home oh shall we go ahead bye bye Hmm Um Forever Foreign Forever You