Clip: What Kevin Tsai Says Is Nonsense In Song Dandan’s Opinion | I Can I BB S7 EP06 | 奇葩说7 | iQIYI
You’re surrounded by bad influences, then you think you are going to be depraved too. How weak. Not only on Weibo, I am surely being judged on many platforms. All the celebrities including Dandan must have something some people don’t like. They then rate us. But should we all follow and rate others as well?
We can do many things on the internet. We can write many things on Weibo. I got to know Dandan because on Weibo, I saw that she’s a warm open-minded and free person. That’s why I like her. That’s why I think we should invite her to join us here.
I get to see the shining part of a person even in a place that’s a swamp, that stinks. This is our requirement for ourselves, that is never to follow others to be corrupted in a fallen place. You can do many great things. I wrote Words of the Road and the Emotional Quotient Lesson.
They’re from the experience I’ve accumulated by writing blogs one by one on Weibo. So why would an… an ex-rating app make all of you judge others and make the app a horrible place? And you blame it on others instead of yourself. In a fallen place, you can still do honorable things,
And it would influence others. They would then follow you. That’s a proper attitude towards technology, rather than keeping escaping from it saying I couldn’t take it, I’d be screwed. This is not the attitude a person with great achievements should have. That’s my first point. I don’t know what you are afraid of. Second,
I think we should learn to face losses. Ran Gaoming said today that wouldn’t it be a cemetery on the internet? Wouldn’t it be a horrible online graveyard? I, in fact, wish there is an online graveyard or a cemetery. Why are we so ruthless towards the dead? “The dead” are our exes. Our lives
Once crossed. Maybe Dandan and I wouldn’t get to work together again, we just met on this episode once. Then she became an ex-partner at work. She’s my ex at work. But don’t I miss her when I lost her as a partner? Our life is built with those memories.
I wrote something in my book that I’d like to share with all of you. In the previous several episodes of I CAN I BB, we always heard about someone who has insurmountable misunderstandings with their parents. So I talked about a solution in my book. That is if you and your parents
Have problems that cannot be solved and it makes you reluctant to talk to them, or even want to cut your ties with them, if that’s the case, try one thing. Imagine that you are asked to write a eulogy for your mother’s funeral. You know what would happen? When you finish it,
You wouldn’t hate her anymore. Because when you lose her, you’d know all those conflicts are the least important. How could you be so naive, so childish? How could you not call her for three years? She may only have thirteen years left, and you don’t call her for three years.
After you write the eulogy, of course you don’t need to stupidly call her telling her that I wrote a eulogy for you. But after you write it, you’d forgive those small things that made you misunderstand each other. Instead, you’d feel what after is important. Why do we always fear to talk about losses?
When a life is lost, we don’t talk about death, because we think that’s not fortunate. When a lover is lost, we couldn’t face our ex because we know in our relationship, if your ex is a terrible person, you also have made some mistakes. Is he just purely evil?
Then what did you see in him? At least your bad taste is a mistake. What about the joy he once brought you? What about the happiness, joy and expectation in life that he once brought to you? When you see everyone is complaining about their terrible exes, you’d be reminded, you’d think that
Do I need to be so angry as them? Or I can still think of something good. It is a vital lesson for us to train ourselves to face losses. So I think an app of memories in love is an app that deserves to exist. Thank you. Do you hate him less now?
I do, I still do. Even more, do you? Why? Because he is… What he said was nonsense. He used such a gentle or even melodious voice to keep talking… Melodious. Sheer nonsense. Yeah, really. Remember what Calvin said. He is the affirmative and I think he’s the most persuasive one.
He said when you raise your hand and want to use violence, you’d think about this app and stop. This is totally… First, you don’t know about domestic violence. It’s an illness in my opinion. It’s not like when he abuses his partner, he’d feel better. What he enjoys is to beat her badly,
Then comfort her, and then make her fall in love again. He enjoys this sick cycle. He’d abuse her again after that, and try all he could to beg her and get her back. Domestic violence is a mental illness. So your argument that this app can deter them from beating their partner is invalid.
That’s a first… this is an interlude. Now let’s get to you. [It finally came] You gave two examples. One is about us. The other is about a person and his mother. Either of them is about exes. We are not exes, right? He and his mother are not exes either. We are talking
About an app about the ex. I don’t even know what you were talking about. And you talked so beautifully. You should be aware that your ex could be someone you dated two decades ago. Yes, right, Dandan is right. [I choose betrayal] Right. You must turn it over.
Otherwise, I don’t even want to read your book. So cute. The ex you talked about could be someone’s mother or grandmother. [Strong desire to live] But you didn’t think it through and you talked about an immature young person who was in a relationship with you. That doesn’t even make sense.
You made me so mad. Dandan, we are on the same side. Same. We are all with you. Don’t be mad. I don’t think I should join the show anymore. Look at her. How angry we made her. Your lives crossed, and she got crossed with you. You finished? No, not. Go on, please.
And your mother, she has a funeral, and you talked about when she passes away, you’d say something about it. How could you say that’s about ex? God. I now only care about one thing, Dandan, how is your son? He’s preparing the eulogy, his speech about when I leave the world.
Dandan nagged at me for only five minutes and I’d rather die now.