Clip: What Does “If Your Mom Support For An Idol Crazily” Mean? | I Can I BB S7 EP05 | 奇葩说7 | iQIYI
Feng Xiaotong. I don’t care about my last name. You can even call me Guan Xiaotong. [My mom shows crazy support for her idol and never stays at home. Should I stop her? Affirmative: Yes] [The real one: Excuse me?] Have you noticed? My opponents are crafty. They changed the topic “show crazy support”
To something else. They changed it to regular support. You know, she said that all support is crazy. Actually, that’s not the case. She asked if there is a cold way of supporting and the answer is no. But there is a passionate way of supporting. That’s just how people normally do it.
But our topic today is “My mom shows crazy support for her male idol that she never stays at home.” Tell you what, whoever gets involved with the word “crazy” does strange things. I’ll give you some examples. Listen to these. You will have to intervene. My grandpa is crazy about square dance
But he is never in tune. My daughter is crazy about homework that she never sleeps. My grandma is crazy about cooking but she never uses salt. My dad is crazy about investing in stocks but he never makes any money. Don’t intervene! Your family will have nothing left!
Are you in charge of banknote printing? If you don’t intervene, no one else will care. Those celebrities certainly won’t care. They are like, quick, spend more money on me! This silly old lady! Take a look at those three! I’m utterly speechless. Okay, now I will present my arguments. [A sudden change]
My mom shows crazy support for her male idol that she is not even at home. Should I try to stop her? Of course I should. Firstly, she doesn’t need to show that support. [Look how you would justify] He is just a male celebrity. So am I. If you can spend money on others,
Why can’t you spend some money on me? If you put that effort into me, I wouldn’t be wearing the same pair of pants for six episodes. You are just spending our family money on others. Secondly, we are not trying to stop our parents from showing support to their idols.
We are trying to stop them from being absent from home. Tell you what, being absent from home is terrifying. My mom always calls me and asks me to visit her more often. What if I go visit her and she’s not home, who am I visiting? The fridge? The TV? The washing machine?
[Laughs his head off] Also, think about this. If she is absent from home, where does she live? At a male celebrity’s place? That’s not appropriate. That makes her a fanatic. Who’s there to stop her if I don’t? The security? They may hurt my mom! In the end, I have to stop her myself!
If I don’t take care of my own mom, who will? [Yes and No] Thirdly, [My mom shows crazy support for her idol and never stays at home. Should I stop her? Affirmative: Yes] we have to stop our mom for the sake of their well-being. Think about it.
Showing support to celebrities should be something happening on the Internet. How can my mom be absent from home? It means my mom is a leader of those fans. She is not young anymore. How can she be capable of that? Some people may work 12 hours a day, 6 days a week.
But for an old lady like my mom, you won’t even let her go back home! What kind of celebrity are you supporting? Jesus? Seriously, moms are not as healthy as you may think. They have osteoporosis! Why should they be supporting you? That’s all for the jokes. Now, let’s get serious for a minute.
My opponent just presented a ridiculous argument. Trying to stop your mom will only push her into going. That means you have used the wrong method. If you really want to stop her, you’ll need some tricks. I’d like to share some with you. First, you can try to accelerate the fading of her enthusiasm.
The fading of her enthusiasm. So she is showing crazy support for her idol. You can be even crazier! You can set KPI for her. [Fan support KPI, super topic, like, comment, repost, page view] Since she is so crazy about her idol, you can demand her to post 3,000 comments on Weibo every day.
No sleeping before the task is finished! After a while your mom would be confused about supporting celebrities. You can also use reverse psychology. So your mom’s absent from home. Right? You can send her a text message. Mom, you are not home today. I suppose you are out there supporting your male idols.
In that case, don’t come home if you can’t get a picture with him. Hearing that, your mom will instantly come home and throw the household register into your face. This is my home! I can come back whenever I want to! Now she’s home! You see, as long as you are willing to think,
There are more solutions than difficulties. You just need to think. I suppose my opponent will say what you just said is tricking your mom. Tell you what, the most intimate parent-child relationship is the one in which we are still willing to come up with an idea to trick our mom as an adult.
In many cases, we really don’t spend enough time to accompany our parents. Have you noticed something? Those male celebrities are at a young age. For me, if one day my mom shows crazy support for one of them, it can only indicate
That she is trying to spend more time with a male my age. Isn’t that proof that we, as their real children, aren’t doing enough? This topic seems to be asking whether to stop a mom. But in fact, it’s asking whether to stop us who are crazy about work and forget about our mom.
Have you spent some time with her? Why did your mom do these perverse things? My mom is the strongest woman that I’ve ever seen. She divorced my dad long ago. After that, she didn’t start a new family. To me, my mom can do everything on her own. But, in recent years,
She often quarrels with me for no particular reasons. She also borrows money from me. Sometimes she borrows 500 and returns only 300. She tries to start a conversation with me. She starts to do things that she would never do when she was younger. Actually, I wondered whether it’s because of her menopause?
Until one night. She sent me a picture to edit for her. I didn’t understand. So I didn’t reply. Then she sent me another message. She said “Just help me edit this picture of mine. I’m 50 years old. There are some wrinkles that cannot be removed.
People used to tell me that I will grow old alone. Did they tell the truth?” At that moment, I thought to myself, am I able to be like my opponents today, being totally open-minded? Can I just let go of my mom and let her do whatever she wants? I couldn’t.
I felt this urgency to go home immediately and give my mom a hug. My mom is using her own way to remind me that my love for her is absent. The biggest mistake that my opponents made is that they claimed to give parents freedom.
But in fact, they neglected the responsibility as sons and daughters. If there is only one person that can take care of our mom. Shouldn’t that be us? Our parents led the way for us when we were young. Through their own experience, they told us where to go and where not to.
Now that we’ve grown up, we may know more about this world than our parents. Shouldn’t we provide suggestions? Can’t you even do that and try to stop her? When I first got this topic, I called my mom. I said, if one day you show crazy support for a male celebrity
That you won’t even come home. Should I try to stop you? My mom said “You have to stop me, son. Because by then, no one can stop me but you.” I said, mom, be assured. You are my star. [Yes and No] Let’s shake hands. I admire you. This kid. Bravo.