Clip: A Handsome Boy Is Teased During The Debate | I Can I BB S7 EP04 | 奇葩说7 | iQIYI
Welcome, the newlyweds. Your clothes also match. I just don’t want to run away. Don’t know what he’s thinking. [Unpleasant to MI eyes.] Okay, Bearhow, introduce yourself. Hello everyone, I’m Bearhow, a college teacher. Hi, I’m Fungel, and I’m a we-media blogger. And I want to tell Bearhow, today, you’re not going to run away from this debate wedding. Waited for it for so long, right? [A battle you can’t run away from.] I think this is similar to what I experienced last time. What happened last time? Apple Wang. [From I CAN I BB Season Five] Are you single? What does it have to do with you? [Best luck with women.] Alright. Rock paper scissors. Okay. Rock paper scissors. Bearhow, your choice. Then I’ll go later. Okay, I go first. Okay. Fungel, three minutes, go. On your wedding day, you realize you don’t love her that much, should you run away? Away from what? It’s your wedding day. Good for you. Not yesterday, not the day after, you just have to choose today. Bearhow, do you think when you wear a suit, it’s more convenient, while the bride wears a dress, then she couldn’t catch up? Seriously. others end their waiting, then enters marriage. You? Marriage first, then you end it. Your friends already send you money as gift, and are having meals on your wedding, then you run. They haven’t finished eating, let alone packing up leftovers. So it is such a rude behavior. And when you run, [On the wedding day, I realize that I don’t love him/her
that much, should I run away from the wedding?
The negative: No.] you stand someone up in a most horrible way. See, two thousand guests from the bride’s side, including several friends from some gang. Do you think you can return after all this? Not until three or five years later. If we are out alone, we’d need money, right? As you are in a strange place alone, with no money for food, you’d be hungry. So running away seems a little too reckless. We should give ourselves more time. No rush to run away right now. Pack up our stuff and money, then we run away. Besides, I don’t agree with your “realizing”. [On the wedding day, I realize that I don’t love him/her
that much, should I run away from the wedding?] Since on the day, you run away so hastily, it shows that you are not so smart. [grinding teeth] So is your realization bound to be accurate? You might just be drunk. When you come to your senses, you might realize something new. Why did I run away from the wedding? You don’t even know. So what’s about your realization? You’re not Columbus who realized [Columbus Continent Rhyme X2] the existence of a continent. And on your wedding, the bride is thinking about happiness and joy. And you? Thinking about how to run out. Tell you what, there’s no way out. If you run away, you’d need someone to pick you up. Who? Your friends? Aren’t they all inside attending your wedding? Didi driver? That’s so not going to work out. Because when you get on the car, you’d be so anxious, telling him to drive faster. Seeing you in a suit, the driver thinks you’re late for wedding, he’d just send you back. Right? There’s no use running. So ridiculous. You’re an adult now, [On the wedding day, I realize that I don’t love him/her that much, should I run away from the wedding? The negative: No.] but you are being childish. You are not having everything your way. You run away as you don’t love her that much. Now let me tell you, it’s not that much easy to debate with you. Why didn’t I run away? Just because I respect you. Therefore, you can choose not to be her man in marriage, but at least be a man. I, myself, was abandoned once, and now, I’m also a “bride”, [What are you? What bride?] a Silent Bride. Because I’m too sad to say anything. So what we are arguing about is in what way should we end a relationship. You don’t love me that much, it’s alright. But at least end it more decently. [Bearhow The affirmative The negative Fungel] The driver sends you back. That’s good. Alright. Bearhow, the affirmative, three minutes. [On the wedding day, I realize that I don’t love him/her that much, should I run away from the wedding? The affirmative: Yes.] Now everyone, let’s set jokes aside. Coach Yang Mi said that I CAN I BB has different colors. I totally agree with that. But this topic, if you think about it, is entirely black. It must be very noisy on the wedding. But if there is a bride who doesn’t love the groom, she maybe the only one, who, through all those noises, can still clearly hear the sob hidden under that white wedding gown. For the onlookers, this is a lively event, but for her, the whole setting is an abyss of agony. If we look back on our life, it looks pitiful. Please open your hand, let’s do the math. As we grow up, how many times are we allowed to make totally free choices? We didn’t choose our family. We didn’t choose our name, our sex, appearance, or experience. Did you have a choice? Why when we grow up, become an adult, and take control of our own life, it turns out that our happiness is still not in our hands? Yesterday, QIQI said something really good that Feng Jicai once said, “the wind can blow away such a big sheet of white paper, but can not move such a small butterfly.” Because the essence of freedom is incompliance. Therefore, when it comes to happiness, don’t underestimate your courage. You have millions of reasons to be your own hero. [Bearhow The affirmative The negative Fungel] Second, from another perspective. let’s look at the person we all dislike, the one in the topic. [On the wedding day, I realize that I don’t love him/her that much, should I run away from the wedding? The affirmative: Yes.] Just as what Fungel said, he/she must be twisted to choose not the day before, or the day after, but today, the wedding day. Think about it. If you have any considerate understanding of humanity, you would understand that the person may face a structure, an environment, and public opinions that are too much for him/her. An ordinary person if doesn’t use such an explosive way to announce that even I am an ordinary person, a nobody, I have some basic principles of life which will not be violated, what else can he/she do? So his/her behavior, rather than running, is more like an announcement. It shows his/her truth self, what he/she wants, loves, hates, and will never do to everyone. So, everyone, this is not running away but deterrent and clarifying. Sure, the topic is dramatic. I believe neither of us would be that person. Not a chance. So for us ordinary people, what does the topic mean? [On the wedding day, I realize that I don’t love him/her that much, should I run away from the wedding? The affirmative: Yes.] Four words, make a prompt decision. When we took the wrong bus, and didn’t find the perfect time to get off, what to do? Sit on it? You must feel anxious asking yourself when to get off. Right now, guys. Right now is the best time to get off the wrong bus. [Bearhow The affirmative The negative Fungel] Everyone present here is young. In the future, you will face the happy moment to make the commitment of your life. Please believe that you always have a choice. Because you are no paper, but a shining butterfly. [Bearhow The affirmative The negative Fungel] Bravo. Totally lost me. Why not give us a happy ending here? Alright, Fungel. Here, challenge time. I go first? Yes, please. Start. Where are you running to? [Hahahaha] Why are you laughing? Any place other than the wedding site, a place that makes me feel comfortable, so I can think about and reflect on everything. Anywhere. But the wedding site is not the place. Now, let me ask you what if you take the wrong bus? The bus has to stop first, right? If it doesn’t, can you just jump off? And you never answered me. He doesn’t know where exactly to go. So this person is not prepared. His escape is an impulsive act. Okay, let’s look at this topic again. In my opinion, the key words are “realize I don’t love him/her that much”. Read them carefully. They mean his/her thorough consideration. Have you ever thought that on your wedding day, after you go through all this, the ceremony should be over. What are you running for? Listen, That’s why you need enough courage, so that even when faced with an abyss, you have the power to go back. That’s my point of saying all these important things. Then do you think I’m pretty? [Huh?] I don’t see the point of discussing that? Because I stand here and he doesn’t realize that, then is your realization that you don’t love her on your wedding definitely right? Not on that day. I just said this is the result of thorough consideration. Consideration means running away? Making others look bad? You really know how to make a scene. Bearhow is out of time. Out of time. Keep talking. He was lecturing me. Let me tell you, guys, he says he doesn’t love her that much, it’s normal. That’s the nature of marriage. I don’t love her on that day, I don’t love her that much for ten years. What does it mean? It means I’m a stable person, very consistent. You have the best status of marriage at first. Why run away? Why? Three seconds left. So don’t run. Love you. [Bearhow The affirmative The negative Fungel] Love you.