【FULL】In Later Years EP09: Mrs. Ni is Sent to a Nursing Home| 熟年 | iQIYI
[English subtitles are available] [In Later Years] [Episode 9] Actually, what you’re saying now is still how she treats others. Let’s put aside her social attributes. Let’s put it this way. In your heart, What are her merits as an individual? I’m your wife. There are some problems that you can’t talk over.
When you can’t solve them, I have the obligation to help you. You are a university professor. You didn’t go to work and you didn’t go home. How old are you? You even play motorcycle. Isn’t this a dereliction of duty? If it’s something else, I can listen to you. What time is it now?
What’s Mom’s condition? This is already Alzheimer’s disease. Do I have to say it? Mom must come back and live with us. Ms. Shen, is this the cause of the problem? Actually, most of the time, I think you don’t know me. Actually, it’s the opposite. You fill up my life 24 hours a day.
You only come home twice a week. Yes. Coming back twice a week was what you stipulated. No matter how busy I was, I must come back no matter what obstacles I met. And as you stipulated, the family banquet must be held once a month. Although I think it’s a formality,
And it’s not necessary, as long as you called me, I had to put down all my work and come back for the family banquet. I doing family banquet once a month was not for myself. How can we maintain the love of a family? We can’t see each other once a year
Because you’re busy with work. It can’t be like this, right? And as I said just now, you always eat casually and you don’t sleep well. Wasn’t I caring about your health? You care about my body. And you bought me a smartwatch. This watch can detect blood pressure and heartbeat.
I used it happily for some time. Later I found not only could I see my own indicators, she could also detect my everyday heartbeat, when my blood pressure went up or down, and how many hours I slept a day from a distance. You knew them more than I do. Yes.
If I didn’t know these, how could I supplement your nutrition? I don’t think this is caring about me. This is controlling. Weiqiang, I never thought about controlling you. But you have to tell me something. Otherwise, I have to know them myself, right? But these are my own business. There’s no need
To let you know everything. Ms. Shen, let me give you an example. Yes. For example, one of his students wrote a report letter. Because of this letter, his selection qualification was canceled. He didn’t tell me anything. For me, it was about his future. For our family, it was very important.
If I didn’t know the situation by myself, I wouldn’t know anything. Excuse me. Can I interrupt you? I have a question. Just like what your husband said… the control and pressure… Before this, have you two had in-depth communication? How can we communicate since he says nothing? We communicated, but it was useless.
Have we communicated? Yes. I’m your wife. Besides being my wife, you also have other social attributes. We should keep each other’s selves, right? I think I had myself. I had a lot of work to do too. I did a good job. Of course you didn’t care. I’m afraid you’ve forgotten
Where I work and the name of my company. That’s your business. We are adults. There’s no need to inform each other about everything. Okay, I’ll think about it. What state do you want? I shouldn’t care about your health, your work, and everything about you. You never care about me.
We don’t care about each other, and keep this state. Is this the result you want? Zhang Chunmei, we’re back to the starting point. Do you know it? If you really think so, I have no choice. You’re back. You do well today. You are making dumplings today.
I’m making dumplings because we will eat them in my mom’s place. What’s up? Mom said the two of us, Weiqiang and Weizhen had to go. The kids don’t need to go. We have to go. So, I’ve made over 100. Then we will eat them at night. We will cook them…
You have made so many. We need to save some fillings to eat ourselves. Why did Mom ask us to go there? Is she going to have a meeting? It will be about Wei Qiang and his wife. Let me tell you. Mom has to manage Weiqiang’s affair. It’s so outrageous.
You’re middle-aged. How old are you? You want to divorce and then divorce. How can he be so irresponsible? I have to criticize him when I get there today. You can’t do that. You… Look how you react when you hear this thing. You talk too much. Don’t say a word when you get there.
Really, Erhu. Because sometimes when you talk, you are easy to offend people. You say a sentence, and Mom gets angry. Then you say another sentence, and Chunmei is unhappy. You say… I say this and I say that. Why am I so idle? OK. I won’t say a word today. Alright?
I will shut up. Mom. Mei, where are you? When are you coming back? I’m driving. I’m on my way. I’ll be back soon. Where’s Weiqiang? Tell Weiqiang to come back too. Mom, we are together. Come back early together tonight. Okay. [Jinbei TV Station] Between the tradition and rapid modernization,
How can they find respect and modern Chinese’s self-approval? These are not unfamiliar to me. Pop is not fresh sometimes, but old. These things can’t excite me. Zhou, make the public opinion report and give it to me tonight. Although it’s the last episode, we still have to finish it well. Yes.
The Thinker, a program with so high viewer ratings by then, will also be suspended. Besides, Ni Weizhen must be very upset. She’s old, and the show is suspended. Where is she going to do? Yes. You know what, The Thinker will be suspended. The person you like is going to be unemployed.
I have told you that women go downhill after 35. Listen to me. Don’t fall in love with her. Keep an eye. Where are you going? This is the last episode. Even if we are friends, I don’t want to see her suffer. He Zhichao, do you have to do this? Zhen,
Where are you going? I’ll give you a ride. No need. The last episode of my program has just finished airing. Thank you for your advertiser. I know you feel bad. Get in the car. No. Things I feel bad have long passed. I’ll treat you to dinner next time. Zhen. Zhen! Weizhen! Weizhen,
I’m in front of your house. I brought you your favorite dessert. I’m not at home. I have something to do tonight. Okay. I’ll put the dessert on the table at the door. Remember to eat it when you come back. Dumplings are ready. These should be eaten hurriedly. Okay. I… Sit here, boss.
Sit down. Let’s eat them later. Let me tell you something. I don’t agree that Weiqiang is going to divorce Chunmei. I hit him, but he didn’t listen. So I asked you to come here. Let’s think of a way. Weimin, you say. Mom, because I have talked with Weiqiang about this once.
I won’t talk about it today. We didn’t hear what you said. You say. Let me hear it. What I think is the same as what you just said. I don’t agree with their divorce. Because as an elder brother, I don’t want to see my brother and his wife end their marriage
In this way. Waiqiang and Chunmei have been very close for so many years. Then they suddenly asked for a divorce. And it surprised us. We are not supposed to get involved. Calm down first. Don’t make such a decision so early. Why should they calm down, Brother? Haven’t you seen Weiqiang? He’s quite calm.
Why is this? It’s just because Ms. Zhang Chunmei is capable. Ni Weiqiang, I just want to ask you. All these years, haven’t you seen what Chunmei has done for this family? Haven’t you gone too far by doing this? If it weren’t because my sister-in-law
Took good care of Ni Sinan through all these years, could you have felt at ease and done scientific research in school? If it weren’t because my sister-in-law took good care of Mom, how could we be so relaxed? Who are you to ask her for a divorce? Even if you will divorce,
She should divorce you. Mom, did you see that? Men are all like this. They are so selfish and irresponsible. That’s why I don’t want to get married. Don’t push me anymore. Ni Weiqiang, let me ask you. Make it clear here. Do you have another woman? What’s your relationship with Zhou Qin? Weizhen…
What’s your relationship? Weizhen. Your brother doesn’t have another woman. It has nothing to do with Zhou Qin. Don’t defend him. I’m not defending him. On this point, I totally trust your brother. Mom, don’t get angry for our affair. Everyone, don’t worry about us. I’ve talked with Weiqiang about what we should talk.
And he was quite cooperative. I found a marriage consultant. After talking with the counselor, I think I also have big problems. Actually, Weiqiang acknowledges me. Especially, he acknowledges my efforts to our family. Maybe my concern for him and my attention to him brought him some pressure. He even felt that he was controlled.
But Weiqiang, since I’ve realized it now, I can change. I’ll try to pay less attention to you. What do you think? We have a chance now. I have a business trip tomorrow. Mom, I’m going on a business trip for a week. I won’t call you or send you WeChat when I am away.
I can completely not contact you. Try it, and see if you can feel better. Okay. I’ll wait for you to come back. Sorry for making you worried for what happened between Chunmei and me. I feel guilty. No matter I am a younger brother, an elder brother, or a son, I’m sorry.
You guys eat first. Where are you going? Don’t go. I haven’t said anything. I have represented you. I have represented you. -Don’t say anything. -You can’t represent me. Really. Can’t you control yourself? I can’t control my temper. You are enough. I need to say something. Mom, I will say something. Say it.
No. Say it. Well, Zhen, let me talk about your words first. Otherwise, it’ll be messy. You just said Weiqiang was irresponsible and selfish, right? I think this is right. But you can’t say that all men in the world are irresponsible and selfish. I don’t think this is very objective.
You were making an excuse for not getting married, and being an unmarried daughter. Of course, it may sound harsh, but I mean it. Then I’ll continue to talk about what Chunmei said. Weiqiang doesn’t have another woman. It’ll be more troublesome if there are no other women. It’s like this.
For example, he has another woman outside, Mom. That’s easy. We have a clear goal. Defeat the other woman and get your heart back. It turns out that he doesn’t have another woman. He has no reason. He just gets annoyed when seeing you. This can’t be solved. Everyone gets annoyed when seeing others.
Chunmei, to be honest, sometimes I get annoyed when I see your temperament. It’s a kind of temperament. You know? But Weiqiang is still selfish and irresponsible when he did this. Right? Why didn’t you get annoyed when you married her? The marriage has been almost 20 years. How can you leave so casually?
Later, you go and find another woman who is 28 and give birth to two babies. Can she stand it? She can only find someone who is in his 50s or 60s. It’s hard for her to find another man. So you can’t just think about yourself in terms of the divorce.
You can’t just leave when you say you’re annoyed. There’s no such thing in the world. Everyone gets annoyed. Just tell me have we ever hated each other? What are you… She said that you thought she controlled you? How did she control you? Give me an example.
She asked you to go home twice a week. Is this called controlling you? When they just got married, as long as we had a family gathering, no matter when, the first sentence Ni Weiqiang said when he came in was “Where is Chunmei?” Yes. I remember when Chunmei’s colleague was sick,
Chunmei went to visit her in the hospital. Chunmei’s phone died. He even went to our house to look for her. He said he walked around downstairs. He waited. Why didn’t you think she controlled you by then? Why did you ask for control then? If I were your elder brother,
If I had a brother like you, I would have beaten you. What are you doing? -No, really. -Enough. Can you control yourself? That’s enough. -That’s enough. -I can’t control myself. Enough. Stop it. Sister-in-law. Yes. I’m happy that you live happily with my brother. I also hope you’ll always be my sister-in-law.
You were right. Zhen, there are many good men in this world. There are only a few bad men. So I hope you can find a good man and get married as soon as possible. Mom, don’t worry. Chunmei and I are adults. Trust me. We’ll discuss it. All right. You guys eat.
I’m going back to school. No. He still wants to divorce? Mom, I’ll go pack up first. Mom, Erhu may have said too much just now. She is just that kind of person. You just… You can either listen or not. Erhu was right. Weimin, Weiqiang and Chunmei are going to divorce? What you said
At the dinner table tonight was right. Let me tell you. My words are absolutely right. Your brother felt hurt because of my words. Do you believe it? Are you still thinking about it? Don’t be too anxious. Maybe my second brother was just impulsive. He might not divorce. He’s always been
Stubborn since he was little. He is stubborn. It’s hard to change. You’re right. Do you remember we were closest when we were kids? He took me out to play every day. Once we got into trouble, he would make me the scapegoat. Because he knew you didn’t bear to hit me.
If he let me shoulder the responsibility, we could escape and be safe. He was like this every time. Things you said are in front of me. In a blink of an eye, in a blink of an eye, they passed. You are all grown up. Chunmei is good in everything.
But sometimes, her personality is too strong. She always makes people feel stressed. I didn’t notice it. Chunmei is good. Your sister-in-law is a good person. OK. You… don’t worry too much about their divorce. They are in their forties. They can make arrangements for the rest of their lives. Okay? I’m old.
They don’t follow my words. Mom, let me tell you something. I quit my job at the TV station. What? I quit. Then how can you make a living? Calm down. Your daughter is so outstanding. How can she not find a job? Shouldn’t I choose my next job carefully?
-That’s true. -You should trust me. Your daughter’s future will definitely be better than today. I believe you. I’m not getting married anyway. You can count on me in the future. Don’t be childish. You don’t get married, and stay with me? I can’t accompany you. What are you talking about?
You will live a long life. You will stay with me. My old daughter… What old daughter? My old daughter, let me kiss you. That’s enough. Look at you. It’s so late at night. All right. You just need to be healthy. Don’t worry about anything. I want to manage them, but I can’t. Mom.
Nan, I’m going on a business trip tomorrow. I’m leaving for a week. If you have anything, go for your aunt. Come back and visit your grandma on the weekend. Mom, your voice doesn’t sound right. Are you crying? No. I have a cold. You might as well have a rest.
Don’t go on a business trip, Mom. This is work, Son. How can I stop working because I am sick? Yes, my mom is a queen. But Mom, take care of yourself. Okay, I got it. Mom, are you and my dad okay? Go to bed early. Don’t stay up late.
Don’t you have class tomorrow morning? I need to sleep too. I have a plane to catch. Good night, son. After I retired, I was not stagnant. I continued running in a different way. The current me… He Zhichao. What are you doing at this hour? I am learning English. You work so hard.
I’ll make you some supper. Hello, Mom. What’s the matter? Why are you calling me so late? I still want to talk with you about that thing. I want to sell this house. Why are you selling the house again? Didn’t I tell you not to sell it last time? I heard from your mother-in-law
That she wanted to buy a house for you two. I want to do something for you. I can’t let your mother-in-law pay for the house alone. It will be counted as the dowry I give you. I’ll pay the down payment for you. What do you mean?
My mother-in-law called you and said that she wanted to buy a house. Did she ask you for money? No. This was what I discussed with your mother-in-law. Your mother-in-law also said that she let you stay home and prepare for pregnancy. It’s not settled yet.
And I don’t plan to give birth to babies now. Mom, don’t worry about it. Don’t worry about buying a house. You can’t sell the house in our hometown. Understand? You can’t sell it no matter what. What’s wrong? Your mom called my mom. Why did she call?
She said that she wanted to buy us a house. She asked my mom to pay half of the money. How can my mom get the money? My mom doesn’t have money. Even if she sells the house, she won’t get much money. Besides, if my mom sells the house, she’ll have nowhere to live.
Do you know that? I know. Leave it to me. What do you know? I’ll talk with her. Let me tell you, Ni Jun. We won’t give birth to children now. We can buy a house by ourselves. No matter what, we can’t force my mom to sell her house.
Leave it to me. I’ll talk to her. Leave what to you? You say you are responsible for everything. Were you responsible? Were you responsible for once? Why are you carrying me? Why are you carrying me? Put me down. Be quiet, honey. -My mom is sleeping. -Put me down. She’s sleeping. Listen,
You can’t force my mom to sell her house. Tell your mom. Tell your mom. Open your dull eyes. Stop pretending to be asleep. Did you hear her? Every word she said was to blame me. I don’t understand… Buying a house… Isn’t it natural to let your mother pay half of it?
We won’t live in that house. You two live in that house. Why should our family pay for it alone? Stop talking. Why shouldn’t I say? Did you hear that? She said she wouldn’t give birth to children. How can you not give birth to children? Give birth to children if she wants to.
Don’t give birth to children if she doesn’t want to. That’s her freedom. Freedom? Why should I give you this freedom? I won’t give it to you. You eat, drink, and sleep at our home. You hold my son in your arms every day. You are so sweet…
Enough. It sounds like she is a tenant. Let me tell you. It would be better if she were a tenant. Tenants even pay rent. Has she ever paid any rent? She lives and eats here for free. Does your mouth feel uncomfortable if you don’t scold them? You really reminded me.
I really have to scold them. I’ll go now. What are you doing? What are you doing? Can you build a good image? What good image? A good mother-in-law. I… Am I not a good mother-in-law? You are. I’m so depressed. I’ll sign up if there is a selection for the best mother-in-law in China.
You’ll definitely be the champion. Are you laughing at me? No, you’re mocking me. No. Listen, Ni Weimin. I’m telling the truth. This kid argued with my son and let me listen. And I can’t react. If I react, I’m not a good mother-in-law in China. Can you open your eyes? I’m chatting with you.
I can’t open my eyes. Go to sleep. Why can’t you open your eyes? You can’t open your eyes all day long. What did you do? You are so tired. My back hurts. I have to worry about everything. You don’t care about family matters at all and let me suffer. You are outrageous!
You’re bullying an old woman. Bad woman. I will sleep. [Application for retirement] Who is it? Weiqiang. Brother. Why are you here today? Aren’t you going to work? Why work should I do? I don’t have to work anymore. I have retired. I just finished the procedures In the past, it was you and Chunmei…
I didn’t fulfill my duty. Now is great. I can cook for our mom. You mind your own business every day. You’re packing. Are you going out? I’m going to see what our mom is doing. I sent Mom to the nursing home. What? She was sent to the nursing home.
It’s not far from here. We can visit her anytime. What do you mean? Weiqiang, why did you send her to the nursing home? I don’t understand. What’s the matter? Did our mom offend you? No. No… What difficulties do you have? If you have any difficulties, tell me. You can tell me. And you…
But don’t send her to the nursing home. -You can’t do this. -Who can I talk to? Who can I talk to? You can talk to me. Does it work if I talk to you? Why? What can you do? Have you ever asked what I have been thinking through these years?
What? What do you think… What have you been thinking? What’s the matter with you? You can tell me if you have anything. Chunmei and I are going to divorce, right? After that, Chunmei has no obligation to take care of our mom. Right? Even if our mom lives in your house… Brother,
How can she live in your house, such a small place? Why can’t she live there? -How can she live there? -She will have a bed if she goes there. Then I can… It’s not just one or two days. Be realistic, right? And you’re not young anymore. Right?
I, I can raise our mom too. She can’t… I can also raise her. But in this way, it’s better for our mom, you know? Listen to me. Anyway, our family… You’re not the only one. There are still me and Weizhen. Don’t mention Weizhen. She’s just a little girl.
She can’t even take care of herself. Why are you shouting? You expect her to take care of our mom? Won’t you worry? I can’t rest assured. Let me tell you. Listen, Weiqiang. No matter what, you are not in charge of Ni’s family alone. Not you… I will pay for the nursing home myself.
-You don’t have to worry about it. -No. Listen to me. It’s not about how much money you have… Brother, it’s just a change of concept. It’s not a concept. Just like you… Our mom lives there… -It’s better than staying at home. -Others will say… It’s better than living in your house.
People say your children are too unfilial. No one takes care of her anymore, you know? No one is taking care of her anymore. Weiqiang, you… You’re so cruel. Which nursing home? Ningxin. Where is it? Weihai Road. Wait, comrade. Who are you looking for? I’m here to see my mother. Your mother?
Who is your mother? This old lady. The old lady with Alzheimer’s disease. Yes. Wait, wait. How can you prove that she is your mother? How can I prove that… I haven’t brought my ID card. My mom’s name is Li Peijun. She was born in 1944. You’ll know it if you check it out.
Her name is Li Peijun. But how can you prove that you are her son? You… Take me there and she’ll recognize me. She has Alzheimer’s disease. She might not know you. She will definitely know me if you bring me there. But if she doesn’t know you, you still have to go out. Fine.
Old Madam. Old Madam. Do you know him? Weiqiang? Weimin? See? She knows me. Okay, I’ll leave. This is my son. You talk. Weimin, why are you here? Mom, you… Weiqiang told me today. I didn’t agree. You can’t live here. Understand, Mom? You don’t know why I retired. I’m not old enough to retire.
I retired because I wanted to take care of you. I’ll take care of you. I’ve thought about it. I have time. So, you can’t live here. You can’t live here. I’ll… I’ll take you away. I will take you to my home. Your home? Where will I sleep in your house?
I have a bunk bed. You can sleep on the lower bunk. Erhu can sleep on the upper bunk. I’m fine with anything. My sofa… I can also sleep on the floor. Weimin, I… I know what you are thinking. You are a hero of our family. Your father passed away early.
You started your own business. Then no one dared to bully us. When Weiqiang went to college, it was you who gave him 200 yuan a month for living until he graduated. I know. I can’t be a burden to you anymore. No, I just… -You… -I’m not going to your place. Just give up.
If you don’t live with me… otherwise… you still live in Chunmei’s house? I can go there every day. They don’t need to take care of you. Chunmei and Weiqiang are getting a divorce. You know it, right? Even if I take her as my daughter… There is no relationship between us anymore.
Chunmei is young and beautiful. You understand it. Isn’t it awkward for me to stay with her? I can’t live there. You don’t… Otherwise, you can go back to the old house. In the old house, Zhen… Weizhen’s place… Don’t mention it. I’ll be a burden to her. With me staying with her,
She won’t be able to get married. No. You… Look how nice this place is. So many old people are together. We play cards, play chess, and play… And we don’t need to cook. When I’m full, I take a walk outside. Son, after thinking about it, this is my best place to go.
If I don’t cause you any trouble, it will be my greatest contribution to you. You didn’t cause us any trouble… Mom, you didn’t cause us any trouble… Don’t say that. I… I won’t cause you any trouble, I won’t cause you any trouble, You… Chunmei.
Brother, I was busy, so I didn’t check my phone. Why did you call? Weiqiang sent Mom to the nursing home. Weiqiang sent Mom to the nursing home? I couldn’t persuade her. She insisted on staying in the nursing home. She said she wouldn’t trouble us. If you don’t have anything serious there,
Come back soon. OK. Brother, take care of Mom first. I’ll book a flight and return right away. Don’t worry. Mom listens to you. I won’t trouble you. -Please persuade her. -I won’t trouble you. -I’ll call Weiqiang and ask what has happened first. -I won’t trouble you. Okay.